Hey guys. I’ve been studying for around a year (around 1h~1h:30m per day, sometimes less sometimes more, I don’t have a lot of time) and I’m now noticing that I’ve made a bit of a mistake in my way of studying. So for a while now I’ve been using Anki for Vocab. I do all the reviews daily and learn around 5~10 new words that I get from immersion. I also do Bunpro daily for grammar, and I try to read a little bit every day so I get new Vocab for SRS and get a bit of reading practice, be it manga, novels, news, etc.
The problem is, while my reading is progressively getting better and I’m kind of proud of where I’m at, I’m absolutely atrocious at listening and speaking, mainly because I don’t practice it at all. For listening I’ve tried to listen to some podcasts or videos but they speak so fast, I can’t grasp anything. Even the NHK easy news audio is hard for me. The reason for this I think is, because I learned kanji by memorizing its shape and then recalling the reading and meaning, doing it the other way around takes a lot longer for me, and while I’m trying to process one word, I already lost the entire sentence. I also tried really easy podcasts like Nihongo Con Teppei, which I can get for the most part because it’s REALLY basic vocabulary but I don’t know how to get past that barrier. I thought about creating another Anki deck by reversing my current cards to play the sound first but I don’t think that’s the most efficient way to do it.
As for speaking, I feel like spoken Japanese is almost like another language. Besides, reading the vocabulary and grammar points is one thing, but using them for my own phrases is another thing completely. If don’t feel ready at all to even have a small conversation with someone, how can I develop this side? I thought maybe finding a native friend to text with or something since I can think a bit more before replying, but not only I don’t know where to find one, I don’t think they’d be interested in such a low-level conversation.
I get that paying a tutor would solve a lot of these problems but honestly, I don’t have the money or time right now for it, plus learning Japanese is more of a hobby than anything super serious.
Anyway, I’m just hoping for some advice from people who have more experience than I do on how to break these barriers because most times I try to study either of these it’s so frustrating that I just get back to reading practice
Thank you!